Tuesday, July 29, 2008

define a friend - S01 - Tuesday - 28.07.08

FRIENDS ARE LIKE MIRRORS...
THEY ARE YOUR REFLECTION....
YOU'RE LUCKY I'M SO CUTE....HEHEHE

Define a friend...

A friend is someone who knows me so well that I don't have to explain any of my actions to him/her. It is also someone who will accept me as I am.


whats your definition?

36 comments:

TheSilent said...

Friends??this is actually my assignment for technical english...I have to post a posting about friend...I think,this topic is quite interesting...because we all have a friends right??but we all have our own definition about a friend...so,here I want to share with you all what actually a friends to me...a friends to me should be a person who will share most of the happy and sad part of her life with me...who trust me to cry and laugh with her...who want to hear my problem,hear my story...also a person who can advise and help me when I needed...a person who will not ever hurt my feeling,I'm a sensitive person...I also want a person who can teach me how to be a good lady...I have found a friend who have all this attitude and personality...I love her so much...I hope I have been a good friend to her even we are not longer together...friends are not just a person who will laugh with you...they will also cry with you...so,love your friends...and your little ship that you and your friend build and row together,FRIENDSHIP!!!

shaz said...

A friend like you

Written with a pen.
Sealed with a kiss.
If you are my friend,
Please answer this:

Are we friends
Or are we not?
You told me once
But I forgot.

So tell me now
And tell me true
So I can say....
I'm here for you.
Of all the friends
I've ever met,
You're the one
I won't forget.

And if I die
Before you do,
I'll go to heaven
And wait for you.

I'll give the angel
Back their wings
And risk the loss
Of everything,
just to prove my
friendship is true..
to have a friend like you!

Anonymous said...

'berkawan biar seribu, bercinta biar satu'......
some say that love is better than friendship, but i prefer friendship rather than love..
It doesn't mean that I'm not interested in making or finding my true love, but the word friend is more familiar to me since I pernah ''dikecewakan" hehe.. a really good and understanding friend is better than a woman that will just give u more headache when u need someone to talk..

kawan ketawa senang dicari, kawan menangis.... really difficult to find.. thank god, I have my 'kawan menangis' huhu... he..opss, she's really understanding person, know how make me feel better if I have problems.. we always sit together, share our problems, our stories n even some of my secret with her.. but now we can't sit together.. really far maa.. she's in Perlis, pursuing her studies there and me.. here lah in the most peace place in Malaysia ( U bet hehe) Gambang lol!, but we still contact each other..

For me, friend is a person that I can share anything, everything. A really good friend is hard to find. If you can't find a good friend, just be a good friend to your other friends.. a friend that they can trust, a friend that always be by their side in any circumstances, that can laugh together and 'menangis bersama'

haziq said...

friends are like mirrors?? it's true..you are what your friend look alike.. it's like been arranged, i'm not a smoker, god shows me.. all my other 3 room mates are non smoker too.. most of them like what i likes and hate what i hates..
good things about friends is, apart from sharing our happy and sad moment, they can cheer me up whenever i missed my family.. because i'm from jb.. so it's not possible for me to come all away to jb every week..
to me, a simple, humble, funny and not a selfish person is true friend to me..

Anonymous said...

yin boon said..
Few days ago,my technical english teacher ask us to define the meaning of a friend by ourselves.Actually,'friend' is a common and popular word in human life.Everybody need their friends to make their life more colourful.I feel that maybe different people to give the definition of friend is not same.For me,'friend' really bring a lot of meaning to me.Especially after i enter the local university,I feel that friends really can help you a lot.maybe my parents is not around me,nobody can offer helping for you anymore.At this time,only friends can help you to solve the problem the hostel.So,my own definition of a friend are understanding,friendly,funny,good-listener,mature in thinking,trustworthy and honestly.i know a lot of people cant include all the characteristic that i state just now.But i hope i can get this kind of friend.
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Anonymous said...

FRIENDS ARE THE REAL IMAGE OF OUR SELF. THEY ARE WHAT WE ARE.


MY FRIEND......a person who really knows my actions and reactions no matter in what conditions I react towards. A person who is willing to correct me and guide each and every of my steps is my true FRIEND.

NuriZZuddiN (NObit) said...

This what i do with friends.. =)

I can talk with a friend
and walk with friend
and share my story
in the rain.

I can play with a friend
and stay with a friend
and learn with a friend
and explain.

I can eat with a friend
and compete with a friend
and even sometimes
disagree.

I can play with a friend
and take pride with a friend.
A friend can mean
so much to me!

Dyana said...

dyana said...
i believe that friends are so important in our life.My life is not complete without my friends. The diffinition of friends is more than in the dictionary. To me, friend mean that someone who is always there when i need her most. We would enjoy sharing together, from fun to tear,problems to happiness,study to life, n even girl to boy.Friend will never betray n always offer helps without a fuss. She would accepts me whoever i'm n motivate me when i'm down. The most character of friend that can attract me is kindness because its make me feel comfortable when we are hanging on together. Actually, i dont know how to explain more about the words "FRIEND".The thruth is the words "FRIEND" are so meaningful to me..

ana said...

FRIEND?????
Actually, I dont know how to describe about friends...there are many type of friends today..however, I believe that friends are so important in our life. Our life will not complete without friends. for me... friend is a person who are really meaningfull because she should be a person who will share most of the happy and sad part of her life with me. She also must trust me in whatever situation.
For me, a good,funny and not selfish person is true friend to me..I LUV MY FRIENDS....

atique said...

about friends................
friends,
u are like sun shine,
u are my sun shine,
u are make me hepy,
u are make me smile,
hepy together every day.

friends,
the sky is full of stars but
the moon is u,
the flowers is beutiful of colours but
the honey is u,
the car can move on the road but
the wheel is u,
the earth is full of friends but
the best is u,

friends,
u are very important in my life,
whithout u my life can be lonely,
whithout u my life is not complete,
whithout u my life become mess,

friends,
friends make me luck,
beutiful friends make me proud,
funny friends make me hepy.

so,the lastly can i talk about friends is:
ukhuwah doesn't always need togetherness,
doesn't need everyday,
conversation,
as long as the friendship lives in the do'aa,
it remains abadan abada.........

Anonymous said...

Hi everyone.... Why we need a friend??? A friend is a person who we shared our sadness and hapiness together.. and the most important thing is a friend should be trustworthy... one thing i would like to say. All "Friends" are not true but true "Friends" are very few....get it.. so find a true friend and enjoy each moment in your life....

Anonymous said...

FrIeNd......
FoR mE...DEfiNItiON of fRieNDs Is SOmEoNE ThAT wE CaN ShARe OuR PrOBleMs,ExPeRIEncE
AnD OUr MemOriEs weATheR fEmaLe Or MaLe..FrIeNDs Is A VeRy SpeCIaL PeRsoN...
The ChaRActerS I wOUld LiKe tO Be my FriEnd Is Must UndeRstAndiNg,FriENDly,
HElpfUL,SIncERILy,And MOst IMporTANt Is hoNESt...But A baD FriENDs Is SomeONe ThaT
CAnnOT Be Keep OUr WeaKNessES,..LiaR..aND smokER....anYway,haViNg A fRiends IS verY IMporTant in mY Life...wiTHOut Them...my Life is nOT woNDerFuLL...
THANKS 2 ALL MY BELOVED FRIENDS...

muslimah center said...

When you are sad,
I will dry your tears.
When you are scared,
I will comfort your fears.
When you are worried,
I will give you hope.
When you are confused,
I will help you cope.
And when you are lost,
And can't see the light.
I shall be your beacon
Shining ever so bright
This is my oath.
I pledge till the end.
Why you may ask?
Because your my friend.

Anonymous said...

Definition Of Friend
Today in Technical English class , we explore the topic about definition of a friend . Although there are many different opinion on the personality and attitude of a good friend , but for me a good friend should included :

Caring
Talkative
Accommodating
Approachable
Without Affectation
Trustworthy
Friendly
Good Listener

July 29, 2008 5:49 AM

Anonymous said...

what friend's meaning to me
Kind,helpful,honest,trustworthy, beautiful and so on..all of these can be a definition of a friend to someone,but, to me, a definition of a friend is someone who can make me happy and laugh when i am in sadness or tension....in other words..a friend must be an understanding person..in article that I've done read it..that sentence "communication is very important to me,so i like to have friends that I enjoy conversing with whether in person, on the phone, or via e-mail" is exactly meaning of a friend.

kodok said...

friends....
it is complicated to explain..
but i think friends is like playing a musical instrument...
must choose the right chord to make sound better...
also give us a great melody when we bored,sad,happy,lonely, and everything we felt...
like me...
a friend must a good listener...
to listen all the friend teeling about their feelings...

iNtAn sHaFiNaZ said...

friends!!!
standing for what?
let me guest first..

...someone who can always 'sit' with me anytime..

it is true??
ehmm... it is very subjective to describe.
to me, friend is someone who always can be trust..it is very dificult to me to find someone that i can trust.. but since i grew up.. i can find that kind of friends.

perhaps he can be my friends until the end of the story..
..

Mohd Yamato said...

FRIENDS???

I will define friend as the person who are knows and love me so much...

help me when i face a hard situation,
crying together when i sad,
laught together,
eat,
sleep,
walk...

but the most important is, he/her can bring me close to Allah...

when i look at he/her,
when i talk with he/her,
walk,
eat,
sleep...

thats can make me crying.
because of the wonderful bond of 'UKHWAH'because of ALLAH!!!

Anonymous said...

FRIENDS means something very specail to me.they are the one who can help you when having problm in life or facing problem.so they are important to me.So i would like to advice people out there please appreaciate your frieds...

爱丽丝 said...

NG YIN BOON said..

Few days ago,my technical english teacher ask us to define the meaning of a friend by ourselves.Actually,'friend' is a common and popular word in human life.Everybody need their friends to make their life more colourful.I feel that maybe different people to give the definition of friend is not same.For me,'friend' really bring a lot of meaning to me.Especially after i enter the local university,I feel that friends really can help you a lot.maybe my parents is not around me,nobody can offer helping for you anymore.At this time,only friends can help you to solve the problem the hostel.So,my own definition of a friend are understanding,friendly,funny,good-listener,mature in thinking,trustworthy and honestly.i know a lot of people cant include all the characteristic that i state just now.But i hope i can get this kind of friend.

Anonymous said...

The mind of a true loving friend is like the lines of a railway track.they never meet,they never cross but they always go a long way together.......

~conangirlz~ said...

friends...
all of us is my friends..
all of us have their own describe for their friends...but if we want the friends is like as our dreams,we must prepare to be a friends like our dreams first before we meet friends that we like it..i have friends 'yang sekepala' with me..we enjoy it..
for me..friends is everything after my parents..because now we live with friend...for me..i want be a friend to all my friends and they enjoy with me..."persahabatan yang pertama lebih indah daripada persahabatan yang kedua"..hehehehe...

~conangirlz~ said...

friends...
all of us is my friends..
all of us have their own describe for their friends...but if we want the friends is like as our dreams,we must prepare to be a friends like our dreams first before we meet friends that we like it..i have friends 'yang sekepala' with me..we enjoy it..
for me..friends is everything after my parents..because now we live with friend...for me..i want be a friend to all my friends and they enjoy with me..."persahabatan yang pertama lebih indah daripada persahabatan yang kedua"..hehehehe...

atique said...

i want give u some imformation about friends
TYPES OF FRIENDSHIPS.......

Best friend (or close friend): a person(s) with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.

Acquaintance: similar to a friend, but sharing of emotional ties aren't present. An example would be a coworker whom you enjoy eating lunch with, but would not look to for emotional support.

Romantic friendship: the very close but non-sexual friendship shared between two friends, often involving physical contact such as hugging, holding hands, and even cuddling.

Soulmate: the name given to someone who is considered the ultimate, true, and eternal half of the other's soul, in which the two are and forever were meant to be together.

Pen pal: a person who shares a "postal" relationship with another and regularly write via "snail mail". They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintence between each other.

Internet friendship: a widely debated and criticized form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet. It is similar to a pen pal, in a sense a "technologically modern" form of pen pals, and the people may or may not have met in person. It's often considered dangerous.

Comrade: means "ally", "friend", or "colleague" in a military or left-wing political connotation. This is the feeling of affinity that draws people together in time of war or when people have a mutual enemy or even a common goal. Friendship can be mistaken for comradeship. Former New York Times war correspondent Chris Hedges wrote:

"We feel in wartime comradeship. We confuse this with friendship, with love. There are those, who will insist that the comradeship of war is love — the exotic glow that makes us in war feel as one people, one entity, is real, but this is part of war's intoxication. [...] Friends are predetermined; friendship takes place between men and women who possess an intellectual and emotional affinity for each other. But comradeship – that ecstatic bliss that comes with belonging to the crowd in wartime – is within our reach. We can all have comrades."[2]

As a war ends, or a common enemy recedes, many comrades return to being strangers, who lack friendship and have little in common.

Casual relationship or "Friends with benefits": the sexual or near-sexual and emotional relationship between two people who don't expect or demand to share a formal romantic relationship. In the U.S., this is considered "a fling".

Boston marriage: a term used in the ninteenth and twentieth centuries to denote two women that lived together in the same household independent of male support. Relationships weren't necessarily sexual. It was used to quell fears of lesbians after WWI.

Blood brother or blood sister: may refer to people related by birth, or a circle of friends who swear loyalty by mingling the blood of each member together.

Open relationship: a relationship, usually between two people, that agree each partner is free to have sexual intercourse with others outside the relationship. When this agreement is made between a married couple, it's called an open marriage.

Roommate: a person who shares a room or apartment (flat) with another person and do not share a familial or romantic relationship.

Imaginary friend: a non-physical friend created by a child. It may be seen as bad behavior or even taboo (some parents even consider their child to be possessed by an evil spirit), but is most commonly regarded as harmless, typical childhood behavior. The friend may or may not be human, and commonly serves a protective purpose.

THATS ALL THANK U.............

Anonymous said...

Friend

“friend” in my mind is who are wiling help me out from difficulty. I trust my friend, and also hope that my friend trust me. In this word, we all need friend to communicate and to sharing our happiness and sadness. Friends can be say that important, but sometime friend can be very horrible. Some of friend will stay beside you and betray you. So we must carefull when choose a friend.

CheD's said...

"Friends are like mirrors...
They are your reflection...
You're lucky I'm so cute...
Hehehe"

"Friends". In common, all the people in this world have friends of their own. Friends are someone who you can trust, share all your feelings and always be with you even you are happy or sad. Yes, for me that a true friends.. =)

The phrase "Friends are your mirrow", its really interesting. As you can see, friends give us big influence in our life. so, it is alright if I say that friends is who we are. They play important role in our life after our family.

As the conclusion, we must be careful on choosing our friends because they have great effect in our life. Always loving our friends too because they are treasure..and to all my friends, love you all so much..thanks for everything!!!

ana said...

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

1)the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
2)sympathy and empathy,
3)honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
4)mutual understanding.

In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in sociology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology. Various theories of friendship have been proposed, among which are social psychology, social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.

ana said...

Friendship Is The Most Important Value For Us

How do you imagine your life without friends? Our answer to this question would be very simple: we just can’t imagine it without the ones, whom we can trust, relieve our feelings to them expecting to hear a sincere advice, share both happiness and the most sorrowful moments without any doubts that you will be left alone with your problems. Only close friends can make you smile and feel better even the most stressful day! They won’t let you feel miserable and depressed, insistently trying to cheer you up as much as it’s possible!
My friend and I totally agree with the idea that the main reason why friends are so important for us is not our concrete need for help, but knowing that we would immediately get that help is the most important! What we also believe, is that if you want to be certain that the person you consider your friend is your true friend, go to the mountains with him and you will see! A true friend won’t leave you in trouble.
There is also a short poem about friendship:

Good friends - the biggest wealth
And their friendship is always good.
A person in his life forgets a lot of things
A friend - never forgets his friend…

That’s why we value friendship so much. What can be better than having a friend, who is with you not only when you are in a good mood, but also when you bristle with difficulties or feel a bit under the weather. As the old proverb says, “Friends are for all your life”, so it is a must to value and appreciate them.

Dyana said...

andai ku tahu kapan tiba ajalku
ku akan memohon Tuhan tlg pnjgkn umrku
andaiku tahu kapan tiba msaku
ku akn memohon Tuhan jgn Kau ambil nyawaku
ak takut akn smua dosa2ku
ak takut dosa yg trus membayangiku

andai ku thu malaikat-Mu kn mnjmptku
izinkn ak mgucapkn taubt pd mu
ak takut akn smua dosa2ku
ak takut dosa yg trus mmbayangiku

ampuni ak dr sgala dosa2 ku
ampuni ak menangis ku brtaubat pd Mu
ak manusia yg tkt neraka
namun ak juga x pantas d syurga
andai ku tahu kapan tba ajalku
izinkn ak mgucapkn taubat pdmu..


i got this song's lyrics from my friends. She said that we as human would never know when we are going to die. Its depend on our fate. Allah, the Most Powerful will decide it..we as muslim must always put our trust to Allah. So, always be the kinds and never betray Allah. Always put Allah first..and never do the sin..

Dyana said...

TRUE FRIENDS

A true friend will be loyal no matter what the cost,


They would never put you down or try to be your boss.



In trouble or in heartache a shoulder they will share,


They'll always try to show you how very much they care.



A true friend will always be there in good times and in bad.


They'll try to make you laugh whenever you're feeling sad.



And I know without a doubt that a true friend I have in you.


And I hope that you do know that I'm a true friend too

atique said...

FRIENDSHIP POEMS AND POETRY

A friend is like a flower,
a rose to be exact,
Or maybe like a brand new gate
that never comes unlatched.

A friend is like an owl,
both beautiful and wise.
Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost,

whose spirit never dies.
A friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend. - By Emma Guest

LOVE UR FRIENDS............

atique said...

Poem For My Best Friend : DEAR FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND
DEAR FRIENDS BRING PEACE OF MIND
YOU MY BEST FRIEND ... ARE ONE OF A KIND...


Friends
Friends smile at you.
They like your face.
They want to be with you
Any old place.

Friends have fun with you.
Friends share
They’re glad when you’re happy---
When you’re sad, they care.

If you’re a friend
Then you care, too.
That’s why your friends
Are glad you’re you!!!

atique said...

~~ Your Kind of Friendship ~~


It takes more than caring
To be a real friend;
The nature of friendship;
Requires a blend

Of warmest compassion
And love deep and true
To reach and to comfort
The way that you do.

Because I can see
That your kind of friendship
Is priceless to me.
tq

Dyana said...

KEEP HOLDING-ON


You’re not alone
Together we stand
I’ll be by your side
You know I’ll take your hand
When it gets cold
And it feels like the end
There’s no place to go
You know I won’t give in
no I won’t give in

Keep holdin’ on
Cause you know we’ll make it through
We’ll make it through
Just, stay strong
Cause you know I’m here for you
I’m here for you
There’s nothing you can say
Nothing you can do
there’s no other way when it comes to the truth

So, keep holding on
Cause you know we’ll make it through
We’ll make it through
So far away
I wish you were here
Before it’s too late
This could all disappear
Before the doors close
And it comes to an end
With you by my side
I will fight and defend
by Avril Lavinge


I dedicate this song to all my friend.. no matter happen, i will always be on your sides. We must live as one team and always stand togather to success in our life.When we are stand togather, we can be strong and have full of confidence to face the problems. So,keep holding-on..

Dyana said...

FAMILY

when i need help my family is always there for me.
my family never let me down.
family is always around when u in trouble.
my family is my close friend.
my family is my protector.
my family always care for me no matter what.
my family is going to be my protector to the end..


this poems is by justin kamara. Its all about family..all of us dreams to have a happy family.Its hard to find..But, i believe that even the person who have many crisis with their family, they still love thier family. My father always said that we must put our family first, no matter happen. It is because, family will always act as protector to us. They are close friends that never let you in trouble..So,as a eldest daughter in my family, i will always care about my family no matter busy i am. I will always call them when i'm free to make sure they are ok.. i want always be with them when they need me most.i will support my family's economy one day, and make sure they live happily...it's my promise

mita said...

FrIeNdS
It's hard to explain about friends. There are so many kinds of friends around me. Some are talkative like me, some are boring, some very happy go jolly type who like to enjoy their life to the maximum and some are very silent and humble kind...
me will accept every of my friend as they are, well that is called frienship, right?
friendship for me is a gift given to us by friends themselves... <'_'>