Tuesday, July 29, 2008

define a friend - K23 - Tuesday - 28.07.08

FRIENDS ARE LIKE MIRRORS...
THEY ARE YOUR REFLECTION....
YOU'RE LUCKY I'M SO CUTE....HEHEHE


Define a friend...


A friend is someone who knows me so well that I don't have to explain any of my actions to him/her. It is also someone who will accept me as I am.


whats your definition?

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

a friend for me is someone who i can talk to and share everything....
i want a friend who always understand and accept me for who i am....
most importantly is that i want a friend who can take me to the right path, bring happiness, goodness and help me achieve something in life....

the most important characteristic of a friend for me is kind. A kind person would never turn his/her back when a friend needs help....
He/She will always help as much as he/she can and for me thats what friends for..
to help each other in whatever condition....

@fifah said...

a friend for me is someone who i can talk to and share everything....
i want a friend who always understand and accept me for who i am....
most importantly is that i want a friend who can take me to the right path, bring happiness, goodness and help me achieve something in life....

the most important characteristic of a friend for me is kind. A kind person would never turn his/her back when a friend needs help....
He/She will always help as much as he/she can and for me thats what friends for..
to help each other in whatever condition....

sweetie darlie said...

TruE FriEnD...

What is the definition of a friend? From the dictionary, friend means a person whom one knows well and is fond of; intimate associate; close acquaintance or a person on the same side in a struggle; one who is not an enemy or foe; ally.

But for me, friend is everything! A true friend is always find time for me. They are always on my side eventhough when i lose something. They gives something without waiting for something back. They respect my opinion and show that she/he cares of me. Let me explain what are really friend means to you.

A true friend always finds time for you
Irrespective of whether your friend is busy or not, the fact that you need his/her help has a higher priority. Therefore a true friend will put aside everything else and come over to give you a helping hand in whatever you need.

A true friend is always on your side even though you are losing
The ultimate test to verify if someone is a true friend is when you are going through difficult times. When you have money and you offer drinks on the house, everyone smiles and says that you are a great person. But when you’re broke or down, not everybody will stand by you to listen to what you have to say. Only true friends will stay.

A true friend gives without waiting for something back
Friendship is give and take but it does not necessarily happen in a sequential manner. A true friend is ready to give a lot before asking for something back.

A true friend respects your opinion
Even though you don’t agree with your friend about something, she/he will still respect your ideas and agrees that you don’t agree on that particular point. A true friend values your friendship more than the topics that you don’t agree on.

True friendship is shown through small things
A true friend shows that she/he cares by giving attention to small things like remembering your birthday. Even though you may have not met for a very long time, a true friend would still remember about your birthday.

~ruby~...\(",)/ said...

F: fill my life with joy
R: respect each other
I: interesting(attitude and personality)
E: enjoy life together
N: need in bad and good times
D: doing things together

that is my own definition of friend..

~HEARTY~
that is the most important characteristic that i consider when choosing a person to be my friend..for me, this character is most people like..a person who is hearty is easy to close..everybody can be friends with him/her..because him/her is tend to be a person that can help us in bad or good times..him/her is able to understand us..there is no doubt about this..i do really comfort with this kind of person..

秋之季 said...

Ya. I agree with you that friends are reflections of us.... Actually, I have a lot of friends but I feel more comfortable to talk to those who are characteritics alike to me.
Umm, I think lah, BEST friend is a person who will
lend me their ears,
shared our troubles,
care to us,
& willing to stay by our side
at anytime and anywhere as we need them!!!@#....

M.o.2.@. said...

FRIEND???
For me, friend is someone who can accept n know about myself, my hobbies n what i like n dislike..


i not look characteristic of someone who will be my friend..
for me it enough if they want accept me as one of their friends..
i sometimes can be funny,
sometimes serious,
sometimes lunatic,
i like to help my friends,
solve their problems,
but i dislike somebody interfere in my problems..
i'm also like to find more friends in malaysia or others country..


erm..dh xtau r tulis ape lg..
kpale dh blur r madam..
sori kalu da ayat yg x dfhami mksdny..
hehehe..

a_nizam said...

Friends is someone where we tell our problem and share the happy and sad moment. They also the person where we talk about all kind of up an down in our life. There are also friend which uses us for their important and just using us like a puppet.




"Think Before Choosing A fREINd"

Anonymous said...

On my opinion,a good friend is an understanding person,can accept who i am,respecting me,and we will do everything together.She also must not influence me to do bad things but influence me to do good things.I think a girl friend is better than a boy friend.I can share everthing with her and she will understand me very well.thank you.

anahraf (^-^) said...

fRiEnd
DEFINION OF FRIEND

In my opinion,friend for me is a person who are understanding,that may help me to solve my problems or can stand each other than we will share everything with each other.

MOST IMPORTANT CHARACTERISTIC TO BE FRIEND

Important characteristic that i am looking for being my friend is understanding.it is because this character may cover all thing that will be a good friend.When the person have understanding characteristic,we will survive to be friend untill die.Do not have problem or misunderstanding to each other.So that choose this character as the most important character to choose friend.It may help us to be more close and our relationship still good till last.I LOVE ALL MY FRIENDS.

.....Ijat... said...

Friend ……
For me friend is the person who can give advice and opinion to me whiles I having the problem and the person who can be trusted… other than that , I think our friend personality is shows our personality . It is because I think most of the time we spend with our friend and sometimes we will influence to our friend character .. so if you want to know my personality just look at my friend around me………..
Besides that for me friends is not limited to person who same gender with us but person who opposite gender with me also can be my best friends. Because for me no matter my friends is guys or girl but the important thing to build FRINDSHIP is sincerely and trustworthy.

-@m!R- said...

Friend.......

For me.... friend like cloud.... and it not alway bring the good thing. Sometime in hot day it can help to block the sunrise that is cool. I like friend like that.But it not alway with us and that is the importan thing about friend. I can see some people just make friends with people only for something. ...YOU KNOW IT WHAT I MEAN...

Friends..
Second people we alway see after your family. I hope can have good friends and better he/she (young and crazy) like me....
hak3...

ggadmin said...

A friend is....
the definition of a friend is someone who understands me without knowing why.. it doesn't matter whether it's a male or female.. understandind is important to me because i think if he understands me then he will always listen when i have something to say.. he will always be a tissue when i can't stop crying.. he is an ear for a secret to tell and he is a hand when i feel all alone.. being with friends is one of the best things in the world.. without friends i can't be the best of me.. to choose a friend, the first thing that will make me want to be friend with someone is if he is a happy go lukcy person..=)

Anonymous said...

To me, a friend is someone who will always giving me help and support whenever I fall down along the rough road of my life. It is someone who is like a mirror to me that I can reflect my true self. A friend is also someone who will always be together with me during happiness and hardships. It is someone who will watch my back whenever I am off-guard of myself...

Anonymous said...

in my opinion friendship is a second important relationship after my family. i hope that i can get many friends. quality are can keep my secret in any situation, can support and advice me when i have a problem. thanks to God today, i have many friends that support me in any situation.

atiekah said...

i'm a simple person,so my friends supposed to be simple too but friends for me is someone who can share my laugh,my tears,my loneliness,my problems and everything..I didn't expect much for friends as long he/she could understand me the best..that's all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

alchemist millenium said...

Ask me about mean of friends...for me friends is undefined because sometime it act as a teacher, a mother, or a father. Or maybe an enemy....
The meaning of friends is someone that we know,and later we get close and we know each other well starting with knowing name each other. A good friend is a friend that know what are the bad and good manner also weakness and abilities of their friend, and what they like and dislike.
A friend is people who care about other and sometime thinking about them. If a friend meet his/her friend, they will greet each other with smile.
Sometime we meet a friend that we can not define them as friend because he or she help us too much and remind us always, concern about our health and welfare. This always happen especially we live in a community and far from our parent or family thay we love too much than our friends.



What i want you as my friends.....
For me, i do not ignore who my friend are. As long as he or she treat me nicely and respect each other so am i. Who care your background whether your friend good or bad, older or younger, wealth or poor. People can change. We can not fulfill anybody need from us as their friend, so are they. But, be friendly and helpful person. Give your help if you can. If you can, be an open minded and good listener. Hear and share your friend problem. Be a good secret keeper. So, you can be a good friend.
I want a friend that care about me and ask me to join in what he or she is doing or join in. Help me when i have problem. Respect each other.

Anonymous said...

meaning of friend..
friend is a person that we never forget. Everyday we live with a friend. If we have a prroblem, we will find our friend..

friendship


F” is for Fun…………That friends share when they are together.

“R” is for Reliability….A true friend is someone that you can always
rely on.

“I” is for Interest…….Someone who is genuinely interested in you,
your fears, joys, and life.

“E” is for Energy………They pick you up when you are down, and give
you the energy to go on and believe in yourself.

“N” is for Nothing……..Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time
it is, night or day.

“D” is for Distance…….Although the miles may separate you, a true
friend is never far away.

“S” is for Secrets……..Your feelings and personal/private thoughts
that you can only share with a friend.

“H” is for Happiness……The way I feel when we are together.

“I” is for Inseparable….Through good times and bad, tears and
laughter. A friend will always be there for you.

“P” is for Perfect……..The friendship

TPAH said...

I don't know how to define the words of friendship, for me, friendship is an amalgamation of beautiful and complex feelings which may not often be described in words.

For me,friend doesn't always need togetherness, doesn't need everyday conservation, as long as the friendship live in the doa, it remains abadan abada....

Friendship is like a puzzle,
each friend you have is a piece,
some are on the border,
some are close to the center,
each brings out a piece in us that makes us who we are......

something corporate said...

My definition of a true friend is someone who is going to love me for me. The good times and the bad. They can find out my past and still love me. They are there to listen any time I need to talk or cry. They will not tell any of my secrets unless the secret is endangering my life. They can be truthful with me regardless of what it may be or if it hurts my feelings. They don't talk about me behind my back and they stick by me no matter what unless I have done them wrong. They don't end up disappearing from my life without good reason and we remain close. They would do anything for me unless it was something super unreasonable for them to do. In other words, they would give me the shirt off of their back if I needed it. They must have a kind heart and hold their friends close to it all times.

Anonymous said...

For me, friend is someone that i can completely trust. A friend should understand each other very well.Friend is someone that i can rely on and gives me support whenever i have problems.For me, it is important to choose the right friend, because a true friend is someone that will always be with me through good times and bad, tears and laughter....:-)

undefined said...

FRENS?????what frens.....we know frens as a frens but do we know what is a frens?i was lucky coz i have so many frens that always take care of me.ha ha ha.there are many type of frens.there is a good frens,bad frens,liar frens and manyla.actually i dont mind what kind of frens that i get.if they can accept me,i also can accept them.but what i can say about me is i'm loyal person.he he he.just kidding..4 me,frens is a person who can make me laugh anytime n can share anything wif me.i think that all.c u...

karthik_v said...

A friend for me is smone who like 2 show their true colours 2 everyone in any situation...n i really hate wen ter is back-stabbers in friend...friends forever!!!!!

e characteristic of frenz that i like most is,
enjoy("kaki enjoy"),caring,kind,understanding,helpful...n etc...


and here is a simple poem that i like about friends,,,,,,

"Just when I think I've lost my way
Something illuminates the dark
There you are leading the way
Love shining from your heart

Many friends have crossed my path
And I thank God for them all
But I got an extra special blessing
When your friendship answered my call

You stayed by my side every step
Even when others fled
I know that because you're here
I can face whatever's ahead

Your smile and laugh urge me on
And encourage me to be strong
Your loving support helps me stand
When the road is rough and long

So much that I can thank God for:
My family and health
But when He blessed me with you
He gave me more than wealth

Mortal words could never explain
What you have come to be
You are my life, my world, my heart
You are EVERYTHING to me"

Anonymous said...

For me, a friend is someone that is willing to do everything for me without any fear....I myself need to do it first towards my friends....

A friend is very important in my life....She/he is same important with my family....because friend is like apart of my family....

I already found my true friends....I really thankful to Allah for giving me a chance to meet them....

Friends, I hope our relationship will last forever....InsyaAllah....

Anonymous said...

Isn't it true in our day, that we are too quick to call people friends?

Friendship is an important subject. We all can relate to it, but far too many don't understand it. A misunderstanding is bound to happen when we fail to clearly define our friendships. Some of us have already paid that price.
There is a difference between an acquaintance and a friend.

When we fail to define our friendships, others will eventually get hurt, feel rejected, and even become alienated. Have you ever heard the words, "I thought he was my friend"? Perhaps you have said those very words. Well, could the problem be that you have not defined what kind of friendships you have?

Friendship can be defined on three (3) levels:

Level One: Friendship of Pleasure: "We have fun times together"
Birthday parties, weddings, take vacations together. Here we do things together for the mere purpose of having fun.
We don't necessarily call one another when we have needs.

Level Two: Friendship of Utility: "We help each other in times of need"
You need a ride to a place, borrow or lend money, a business partner, you need a text book to borrow, you need someone to baby-sit your children for the weekend.
The people that we often remember only when we need help, are friends of utility. We reintroduce them into our lives when we have a need.

Level Three: Friendship of Character: "We build each other up for life"
This is the highest level of friendship. This is a true friend.
True friends can speak into our lives. They are not standing on the fringes afraid that we will be offended by what they have to say to us. If you cannot speak into or be spoken into without the fear of alienation, you do not have a true friendship.

AmIN said...

friend..??

A true friend never walks away,
A true friend will always stay,
A true friend look out for you.

A true friend will guard your secrets,
Like a precious gift,
A true friend is there for you,
To give you a helpful lift.

A true friend tries to make you smile,
Tries to replace that frown,
They may not always succeed,
But they rarely let you down.

These arms for you are open,
This heart for you does care,
And when I think you need me,
I'll try to always be there.

I'll listen to your fears,
I promise not to laugh,
Comfort your falling tears,
I'll make this friendship last.

I'll keep you near to my heart,
I'll always hold you dear,
Even when we're miles apart,
Even when you're here.

I hope I am to you,
Everything you are to me,
For the friendship we have,
Is a special one indeed.

flowery antz said...

Once you are alone...you always thinking about someone who is always with you and never let you to be alone.....it's my own definition of a friend....

A good friend.....

HONEST.....when you are looking for someone to be your friend,of course you want your friend to be honest wih u....the same thing goes to me....it's because friend is the person that strongly influence us in our daily life....=)

mad said...

about friends
Definition of friend....for me friends are someone who i can rely on and someone dat can with my attitude..

sometime frenz is just annoying and make me feel tired to impressed them.why they cant understand me.aaaargggghhhh.everything that i do is all wrong to them...

at first, i feel like that.but after a while, i can accept them.hmmm,who knows if they still cant accept me as their frenz..

da frenz that i most wanted is the honest one.i really3 dont like a liar!!!!!

may Allah bless all my beloved frenz...amiin

Unknown said...

no need to say thank
no need to say please
no need to beg appologise
no need to ask permision


that is a very damn good friend for me........arios

Anonymous said...

friends..
for me friend is someone that i can trust and and close with me.
once she/he became my friends,they always be my friend..insyaallah

'FRIENDS...FOREVER NEVER ENDS'

Friends 'til the end, is what was once spoken,Or is that just what you wanted to say?Really, I'd be heart broken Everyday, I thank God for you in every wayV ery often do I forget to say, "I love you,"E ven when I don't feel like it Remember me when you're scared and remember I care about you too!N ever take anything for granted,E ven if there was a fight or two।V ery Lucky am I, to have you as my best friend।E veryday I think about you,R emembering we're gonna be forever friends!E ven if we're both scared,N ever will I say Good- Bye D idn't I always say, "FOREVER NEVER END?"So, please believe me when I say, "Forever Friends।"